With packed schedules at work and at home, it’s easy to lose sight of the whole point of this season of gratitude. Thinking about the things you are thankful for might even feel like just one more thing you’re supposed to do — not that you want to do.
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However, expressing gratitude and appreciation has some pretty powerful benefits, both for others and ourselves:
Feeling stressed? Even just thinking about the people you are grateful for can help.
Gratitude can short-circuit negative emotions like envy, resentment and regret.
Positive psychology researcher Martin Seligman found that when people shared letters of gratitude with someone they had never properly thanked for their kindness, they immediately became happier — and stayed happier for the next month!
Whether your year so far has been awesome, so-so or difficult, think about who has helped you get through it all. Who are the people who brought that positive energy and helped you be more resilient? And who supported you through the toughest moments?
Your list might include the boss who always thinks about opportunities for you even when they have a lot on their plate. Or you may feel grateful for team members who have really stepped up this year or peers who have helped you juggle work and life. And then there are the family members and friends who have cheered you on toward your goals or shared wisdom and advice. You can even feel grateful for the people who push your buttons – like a micromanaging boss or a gossipy colleague. After all, these people are showing you a lot about who you don’t want to be and surfacing your core values.
In my own life, I am grateful this year for:
My amazing team who constantly backs me up, especially when I went through my cancer treatment.
The executives that I coach who had the courage to show vulnerability as we partnered to navigate through major challenges in the current environment.
The opportunity to partner with other executives in the community to lift others up, raise money for those in need, and drive social change. It reminds me how much difference a single person or idea can make.
How about you? Who is on your personal gratitude list as Thanksgiving gets closer? And how will you express your appreciation?